Why people marry
With my life getting hooked to someone else's.. I guess I'm a bit scared.
When I was single (no girlfriends also) I used to think that life is boring, nothing to look forward to.. Getting a companion was the most beauriful thing that can happen to a man.
Then I got myself a girl. Since then I've always felt that there is more to life being alone... In the last one year, the girl has changed but my skepticism remains.
Fear that I won't be able to adventure with my life the way I've always done..
Now the irony:
How you feel about marriage solely depends upon 2-3 things...
1. How easily you are able to engage yourself to other people.. If you have a lot of friends, it's unlikely that you'll think of marriage soon. But the moment your frinds start getting busy with their own lives, you'll feel lonely and think of having a wife....
2. A lot of times, feeling of having a companion (girlfriend/wife) comes from peers / friends.. If your very close friend got himself a partner and is spending more time with him/her, it's more likely that you'll want a partner for yourself too...
The real eye opener is the feeling that there is no escape route from a relationship. It's suffocating.
When I was single (no girlfriends also) I used to think that life is boring, nothing to look forward to.. Getting a companion was the most beauriful thing that can happen to a man.
Then I got myself a girl. Since then I've always felt that there is more to life being alone... In the last one year, the girl has changed but my skepticism remains.
Fear that I won't be able to adventure with my life the way I've always done..
Now the irony:
How you feel about marriage solely depends upon 2-3 things...
1. How easily you are able to engage yourself to other people.. If you have a lot of friends, it's unlikely that you'll think of marriage soon. But the moment your frinds start getting busy with their own lives, you'll feel lonely and think of having a wife....
2. A lot of times, feeling of having a companion (girlfriend/wife) comes from peers / friends.. If your very close friend got himself a partner and is spending more time with him/her, it's more likely that you'll want a partner for yourself too...
The real eye opener is the feeling that there is no escape route from a relationship. It's suffocating.
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